They do say you should not judge a novel by the address, nevertheless when it comes down to online dating pages it’s better to read between your lines.
A story that is typical a brand new customer: a high, good-looking man, making over $150,000 with great pictures, emails her. She excitedly gloats, “Finally. Somebody normal! ” She goes speed that is full – e-mails backwards and forwards rapidly, and continues on date number 1. After four times, for reasons uknown, he sends 50 texts that are mean/snarky midnight and 3AM. We require the guy’s username, and read his profile quickly. Many times, either subtly or overtly, I’m able to identify the “crazy” pretty quickly. Just What someone states and how they state it claims far more about them than you recognize. I try to find these indicators:
1. Anger 2. Commitment issues 3. Misogynistic attitudes 4. Negativity/bitterness 5. Sexual overtones – overt or subtle